I did the genesight test. Please keep us posted. Mine wasn't accurate at all and my insurance at the time didn't cover it but I didn't find out until after the fact. I have an 11-year-old son (not my boyfriends son, from my previous marriage). Would you share the name & location of the place in Florida? Thank you so much for this wisdom! I saw my doctor today and asked to try Auvelity myself. Maybe this is just my life and I need to just accept it. Think of it like when they tell you to put on your mask before anyone else's on an airplane. Right now it's a real struggle. It won't matter how I answer this question I suspect y. Theologically, I fully agree with the facts of the depravity of our fallen nature and the utter sinfulness of our heart, soul, and mind. My son, who's 12 really doesn't want me to go he's always saying I can't be without my daddy. I'm being punished for something I did or didn't do recently. Personally, I am learning to live for God through Christ in such a way that I am full of grace and truth (John 1:14). She does everything, I helped out more years ago when I felt better, but the last few years have been really bad. The wire burned through the floor until it got to the tree; then boom! God is great, waves are good and people are crazy! You've probably tried all kinds of meds, but they are also constantly finding new ones or new ways to dose, so don't give up. What did I do wrong? Love you all so much. So I chose to go off. The consent submitted will only be used for data processing originating from this website. God is just, there is no double jeopardy, He cannot punish for sin twice. Considering it's basically wellbutrin and cough syrup (and I've done wellbutrin), I'd love to hear how different it is. I do DBT with my therapist twice a week. 4:17). It's hard to just end it when you have a kid, but I have thought about running away. I'm very mature for my age as i'm always cooking and cleaning . I did Genesight test. Nothing. The fellow EMTs that picked me up told me "You could've signed a refusal" and I said "true, but you don't argue with a battalion chief." He did so multiple times that day. You are both inspirational to me. Really? To view profiles and participate in discussions please. Her prognosis was definitely poor, but her ability to cope with the situation did not appear to be much better and her psychological, social, and financial situation did not seem to offer her the opportunity to embark on a reflective spiritual journey. Still believe you deserve to feel pain? I fell victim to the reality of original sin. And the compassionate grace of what shows through. His wisdom will eventually sink into my think skull and his patience will see it so. If he did that to you, then he's not the man of your dreams. Change). I am in so much pain,so overwhelmed, scared, and just can't live like this anymore, help! It could just as easily been you. What would you call it? Good luck! I find this through meditation practice. Do you know what she expects of you? He seemed to be, but he definitely didn't wake up one day and decide to ghost you. Where was my mistake? I guess I would still vote for something like the long term treatment program in Florida. Answer such as: "Oh, this is all part of God's plan.". It cost $30 at a clinic. I might have mentioned this before to you. | Benoy J. Thomas, Kraisthava Ezhuthupura | , Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivatives 4.0 International License. I don't care about anything I used to. You must go to Florida,asure your son you will be coming back & maybe they will allow him to visit you while you are in treatment. Look for the signs of gracecommon and savingand show them how God is with them in this time. Depression. That would be worth anything. , : | , : | . And what did he do to deserve such pain and suffering. Speak to an accredited and experienced therapist to help you if you feel like you deserve to suffer. Thats so true. I really want to go to the ER right now, but ive been hospitalized once and I know that's not going to help me. The day I played God and tried to end my life. So sorry you haven't found the right formula. I do DBT but it's not sticking. The tenants who lived on the first floor of our three story house had plugged everything in their living room to a single extension cordChristmas tree, window lights, TV, stereoand ran the cord under the living room rug. It covers any drugs related to mental health. Great post! I pray what you're taking helps you. Cold turkey, patches, gums, acupuncture, lasers if you can name it, I have tried it, and I can tell you why it didn't work for me. I know I'm supposed to be strong but I don't know if I can be. Marshall B. Rosenberg. As a smoker with 30 years of "experience" smoking 2 packs a day, I have tried quitting countless times. 5 minutes later the house was gone. When people say "it didn't work" I have to ask what your expectations are? Again. It could save your life. You have tried and are still trying so much. Pain does happen - it may be a benign consequence of chance, the result of our own choices, or down to the actions (malevolent or otherwise) of third parties. No, it wont make all the problems go away, but it will keep you alive and will be the first step to making things much more tolerable. My Dr. And I decided I needed to detox my system and clean everything out and then decide what to do. It is not necessarily accurate for all. Those who struggle with these questions are in the company of the finest saints in Scripture! John 16:8 says this about the Holy Spirt, "And when He has come, He will convict the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment". With my depression, I just can't do it. What did I do wrong to deserve this? The only reason this question is asked is when there is no discernable connection between choices we have made and the circumstances of our suffering. just reassure him you will be back. We got back together two months later and things were going great. Ribi Kenneth, UAE, Article: THE TRUE POINT OF LIFE! When we are troubled by our actions, it is because we understand their negative consequences and wish to somehow take them back. Thank you for this post. Have you talked about it with her? If this program has a chance to help you, you should go. Id vote for a positive action rather than waiting for a feeling to get better. I want my life back instead of this furniture existence. In fact, as long as you maintain the belief that this pain is somehow right, you are likely to overlook any meaning that might be gained. In no way did I do ANYTHING to deserve the treatment I have gotten from you. His grace saw it so. why do i deserve the pain i get why do i get the tail end of things i dont understand wht i ever did wrong i dont understand why im being put thru all this pain no one cares no one loves do i realy deserve this i give my hear. Please let me know. I did not even realize what I was doing. I love this series!! , : ' ' .. Sorry to hear to are still not doing well. Amen. I haven't been stabalised since, I'd be dead if it wasn't for my son. I had no idea that it was fueling my anxiety and depression. Of this. You are a good person. Then transported twice because of my Type 1 Diabetes. You are a miracle of life that is both an utterly unique individual and part of a far greater whole. First up no shoulds which bring more pain. It sounds like you are worried about going to Florida due to being away from him? Content on HealthUnlocked does not replace the relationship between you and doctors or other healthcare professionals nor the advice you receive from them. It might hurt your son in the short term but if you both handle it right and be honest it won't hurt him in the long run and he will probably respect you more for it. I don't really care what transpires from here . Why isnt God answering my prayers to rescue me from this suffering? And same is the case of all the great men, in the Bible. Amen he heard them all. He intervened and in his mercy showed the way it would end. I speak at local churches on a regular basis and have authored three books, all available on Amazon. Really, I am sorry it did not help. Hopefully that makes sense and didn't come off as rude or come out wrong). In that sense, the answer is nothing.. If a marriage has gone down the shitter, and one . I'm only taking one pill as I taper off the Trintellix. Pain does happen it may be a benign consequence of chance, the result of our own choices, or down to the actions (malevolent or otherwise) of third parties. She smooths her fingers across it and gives a happy little cry of delight. I heard For some reason once you leave something and go back it never works the same. This is just a little part of a report. I give this person a shoutout and promote their business/social media accounts in the video. The lowest point in my search for the Holy Grail of quitting methods was when I visited a shady local . Although the 1st time I was transported for my Type 1, I was ordered by my battalion chief so I couldn't disobey his order. He says it a lot, and that he loves me. Simply click here to connect with one via BetterHelp.com. Probably the same or similar things I did to deserve you. I'm not sure if depression is from repressed anger or not, but how do see the value in the visceral actions. I know how frustrating it is to try almost everything and nothing helps. I've tried and retried. I was on it for 13 years until a year and a half ago. I took my first dose today. Nothing. | Learning To Be Full Of Grace And Truth. I receive a commission if you choose to purchase anything after clicking on them. Put it all together a fall no one knows how I survived, a hiker trained to handle severe trama medically, emergency personnel nearby and ready to move. Sure it would be tough to be away from home, but its tough just functioning right now and this might give you a chance for a better life when you get back. Constantly remind yourself of the wonder that can be found in this world if you are prepared to look for it. Sometimes drugs just don't work. What did I do to deserve this. but he doesn't even notice. Same here. Jane Austen. Some of our partners may process your data as a part of their legitimate business interest without asking for consent. We have done everything to deserve . No one is in a position to have an expectation of good. We have done everything to deserve punishment for our sins, and have done nothing to deserve the reward of good.. This is amazing! I don't want some random person from the internet. These are facts plainly attested to throughout Scripture and are therefore, to me, beyond dispute. Wondering what did I do so wrong To deserve this I feel like I am worthless Every time I speak . and Charitable Trust. A good place to get professional help is the website BetterHelp.com here, youll be able to connect with a therapist via phone, video, or instant message. I've heard a lot about Auvelity myself and am curious to see how it works for you. Im not sure how to find that anger and let it out. Kraisthava Ezhuthupura is licenced under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivatives 4.0 international License. Have you done any physical/emotional therapy like Somatic therapy? I fully agree that any good we experience is only the result of Gods common and/or saving grace. I know I have to go to work, just put my head down and go. I promise I'll listen I promise not to judge you I promise Please I want to make things right Only if you let me But if you don't I'll walk the earth forever and ever Add to Collection . Why has God stopped caring for me? It gives your doctor an idea what would help you! The other thing I can think of is, if you have a crisis center, they should be able to give you recourses to help you. I tried acupuncture and noticed an improvement. If we seek out suffering, it will have no such lessons to teach us; after all, how can we expect to learn anything when our minds are so unreceptive to the potential good in any situation? I've been hospitalized once. From my physical near death appearance to the officer who stopped and found me. Simply comment your favorite recipe under my videos along with your business/social media information, and check back to see if I make your favorite meal! I'm sure that there is a medical term for it and I'm sure there are many shrinks that think . If your wife is there to help I suggest getting the help you need even if it means going away. How many of us can bypass the physical and emotional pain to see this light? I don't want to sound selfish, but it's really hard for me when he does that. I've been back and forth between the crisis center and ED both not really helpful. The most important thing you can show your son and wife is that you keep trying to get better. If you would like to change your settings or withdraw consent at any time, the link to do so is in our privacy policy accessible from our home page. You can always pm me. He said 5mg is better than nothing and just keep taking it. I found somatic therapy helpful and emdr very helpful for healing my childhood trauma/c-ptsd. Disclosure: this page contains affiliate links to select partners. Was it the real Genesight or one of the others out there? Im so sorry my friend. Enter your email address to follow this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email. I've also been hospitalized. James, the brother of Jesus, also confirms that statement by saying; Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness (James 1:2-3). Loved your response to Joshgw. :) I open your letters \u0026 packages on camera! I have read where a lot of therapists are busy but I've also read a lot are doing more therapy online which means you wouldn't have to find some one local. I later came to find out that my anger is so repressed that I have taught it to never boil to the surface. Nothing shy of sheer divine intervention saved me. But you are no more deserving of pain and hurt than anyone else. I've been in and out of the hospital a total of 8 times, 5 times for my PTSD, transported there by EMS. Everyone is calm, cool, and collected. Where was my mistake? Outside of DisneyLand rea. ", talking about the state you in - hopefully helps but do use us and Samaritans or psychiatrist and they more professional. So when you the question comes up, what did I do wrong to deserve this, dont respond with pat answers or paragraphs from your favorite systematic theology textbook. I'm very hopeful. I had to start by cutting 10mg pill into quarters for 8 days just to be able to tolerate it. I do need him to be an adult and I do need him to show up. Everyone was floored and the therapist said Well, lucky you!. What more can I do. Amen sister amen. Married but completely alone. Revel in the moment, rejoice in the beauty of nature, and be thankful for moments shared in love. This is especially useful in all the little moral nuances of daily life. Your wife needs you too. Or not? I don't expect an answer really. If we are meant to be, then somehow, we will make it work. Please enjoy my Popeyes eating show today! Its also true that you can take a great deal of meaning from suffering, but it isnt the case that you have to suffer in order to find meaning. Its more convenient than in-person therapy and is more affordable in a lot of cases. This has been going on for way to long and lives are at stake. Genocide, rape, murder, torture, tyrants, dementia, drugs, slavery, people having rights stripped away, wasting away to chronic illness . Healing from depression isn't like other illnesses. I promised my 12 year old son and my wife I'd get better. I tried lexapro again. Have you done any therapy specifically for it? Why? But from a pastoral perspective, I find this response frankly wretched. i could run away i could hide i could get help but what would it do add another beating or two breakaway my heart says run away from this life only i can change this and then behold i got away I'm in so much pain for so long (20-25 years, the last year and half extremely suicidal), that I just want to end it all. So far, each treatment gives me a few days of real improvement, and I'm going weekly to build on that. Mine for not being here, the trauma of my 12 year old son and the heartbreak of my wife. Did yours look like this. If she feels like me, any thoughts about leaving are NOT because she doesnt want you around. I asked my therapist about emdr, but you have to be stable first. And that very soon, well be in the arms of our loving father where He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away. (Rev 21:4). I suffered in silence and continually repented for even marrying him without Gods blessings. It will kill him. But there's so much pain, I'm so paralyzed. Glad that the three of us can all share stories of Gods grace. Not a chance! Fucker didn't work. We have a very unequal marriage. If you take a moment to read Psalms 10, youll indefinitely ask the question, was this man David really the chosen one of God. Another time at the crisis center, as I was talking about the trauma, I had to stop because it looked like the person that was supposed to be helping me, needed help herself after she was done with me. You loved me. My meds are not stabalising me for me to take more of an advantage of my DBT. I want to be the one to raise him. I see where you have done some different types of therapy, did you suffer a traumatic childhood and are you suffering from trauma/c-ptsd? The Sight of Our Imperfections Should Not Take Away Our Peace, Book Review: The Walking Wounded: The Path from Brokenness to Wholeness. Until then, shine bright for the Lord and smile through your suffering, understanding that this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison (2 Cor. I believe in coming out of depression. Best of luck and hope you do whats best for you and your family.. Today, I'm letting you guys know what's happened behind the scenes and . Representative Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez leaves after speaking to abortion-rights activists in front of the U.S. Supreme Court after the Court announced a ruling in the Dobbs v. Jackson Women's . So much pain. They agreed to that. Every one of them. So I won't feel any pain But I must ask What did I do wrong? We receive a commission should you choose to make a purchase after clicking on them. Now my life is like a piece of furniture and not worth living. he does need you to get better. It is important to let our Christian brothers and sisters know that in such cases as these, these types of circumstances are not the result of being singled out by God for divine retribution. Sound advice from a pastor who has experienced pain and suffering. Is she understanding of what would help you as well as what she needs from you? Great advice from others. It is great advice and i believe you really need to go, you have nothing to lose by going away and try to get help. Sample of a GeneSight report. You are trying. Never delay seeking advice or dialling emergency services because of something that you have read on HealthUnlocked. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); After thirteen years as a pastor in New England, I am currently working as a retail tobacconist, manage the pipe and pipe tobacco section at New England's premiere cigar bar, Twins Smoke Shop, and host the "Not Just Blowing Smoke" podcast. Answer (1 of 4): I don't know who told you Love is the key to LIFE!!! I feel for you. I promised my son a long time ago I would always be here for him and that's what's keeping me alive, barely. I'm ready to check myself in if they take insurance. Lexapro used to work for me years ago also. Here is a copy of a sample report. Please keep me posted. Good luck to you. (LogOut/ I also found ACT therapy helpful for my depression. | Pr. Yes, pain can teach us many things and help us grow as individuals, but only when it comes as a natural consequence of life. In fact, the right truth at the wrong time can do just as much harm as telling untruth anytime (you think about that)! You must do what is best for you and your family. This is what the law of karma is about: for every action there is a reaction. Your son obviously loves you so much. He had no part in my rape nor suicide attempt nor cutting nor suffering except that he was there holding me and loving me the entire time. I hear you, thanks for your very kind post. I need to show my wife I can be a bigger partner but I feel myself slipping into the abyss. It does seem like getting stable is a priority. only for yourself but we're all preprogrammed with til death happily ever after fairytale harlequin tiger beat romantic illusions perpetuated by media, literature, religion, culture since kindergarten. I'm just so tired. , : | . Any tips or advice is greatly appreciated! You like it because you believe you deserve it. I've been doing DBT since January and I'm feeling worse, not better. Im sure it will be the hardest thing for you to do, but please do SOMETHING to stay here, for yourself and your family. With my depression, I just can't do it. In addition to that, I am working on a PhD in systematic and spiritual theology. But very few are taking new patients. I could have died. Showed meds I had been on that should work and didn't, showed meds I was on and shouldn't work but did. I need to figure out how not to leave my son. My Latest Book: Special Graces in Common Places. By all means prepare yourself for the possibility of emotional pain and physical agony these befall most of us at some point in our lives but never seek to convince yourself that this is all there is. What did I do wrong to deserve that? One of the things I read a number of years ago was that depression could be caused by repressed anger and that when patients started getting in touch with their anger and rage, venting it and processing it, their depression and over all mood improved. The right-to-die debate was cast into the spotlight on November 1, 2014, when Brittany Maynard, a beautiful young California woman, took her own life by a doctor- prescribed letha No one is in a position to have an expectation of "good.". I'm worried about being away from him permanently. How did I stay on that ledge? This time feels different than the last time we broke up and I am really struggling because I still love him. Fact is: Only God knows. Josh, as always, you are in my prayers. I need a back up plan. Every doctor, every emergency worker thought me dead. Hi Josh, so sorry you are going through this. If its at all possible in your circumstances, therapy is 100% the best way forward. do i deserve this should i stand up and fight what is the purpose did i do something wrong? Published at the web's largest poetry site. :)Each month, I publish a recipe mukbang, inspired by one of my viewers! I ask myself that a lot even though I'm going through a very different situation then what you're going through. Try to get back on your foot with help you can do it Every step towards getting job that will satisfy you will also help Just try. These more often serve to separate us from the person who is suffering than encourage us to mourn with those who mourn (Romans 12:15). Dumbest thing I ever did. I just need to find the right place. To not live in the same house with him would devastate me. Why do you say it does not work for you? Then I'll go to 2 pills which is the full dose. For the Christian, divine retribution was fully meted out at the cross. I can't leave my son or wife. You may already be gone. If it wasn't for my son and wife I'd probably be dead. Over time my repressed anger really decreased and I felt much better. Yesterday I started a series of posts prompted by everyones favorite pastoral question: Why is this happening to me? It is a very honest question when we are suffering, and it is perfectly fine and appropriate to ask. I cried out to God for years, begging for forgiveness, believing that I deserved the treatment that I was getting as punishment for my sins in my relationship with my husband. Were talking about the inner belief that you have not earned the right to be free from pain and hurt. Many blessings to you, my friend. I laugh and tell her, "You're friend just likes to add happy surprises to someone's day.". Answer (1 of 11): Because you can handle it. An attorney for Paul Whelan, the former U.S. Marine imprisoned in Russia on suspicion of spying, said he understands why Brittney Griner was released in a prisoner exchange and believes an . Im not getting any better. It's a constant battle against this horrible disease. Doesnt work. I'm 15 and we were together for 2 years. While you may try to work through this yourself, it may be a bigger issue than self-help can address. His love and mercy saw his hands to work. : .. I started working on allowing myself to feel the anger and focus on my perpetrator, direct it at them and beat the crap out of a pillow in therapy, venting it and releasing it. Tell them that God promises that when (not if) we walk through the fire He walks with us and will keep us from being consumed. I am going to have to go away. What did I do wrong I can't take it anymore I am a good person so what the fuck did I do to deserve all this suffering and pain I am an easy going and fun loving guy who is totally in love with my wife Mandi and the proud father to my three girls. I am humbled by your kind words. Were you able to actually see your results on paper? Have you tried Auvelity? I got tired of not having any joy, the emotional blunting and emotional paralysis. Hopefully, my eye heals quickly. It's just a form of denial and avoidance. DBT is great for recognizing and learning how to deal with it. 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